Murphy Tribute

As a Leader:

He is not interested in pushing an agenda, or his own interests, and will not give advice unless asked- except when it’s necessary.
He is extremely intelligent, and knowledgeable in a wide variety of topics,
He is curious about everything.
He is observant.
He seeks potential, and inspires talent to reach Its fullest potential.
He is genuinely interested in helping people.
It is funny you can see him early in the day full of dust, mud or muck depending on what crazy project he is working on… and then in a suit and bow tie- or formal tux…and be just as comfortable and enjoy them equally.
Equally dedicated and demanding of himself to do his best no matter what the project, endeavor, or status of his position in everything he is involved in.
He never forgets anything.

When things go wrong:

T.J. is there- he shows up.
He quickly surveys the problem, and finds a solution.
No cape, or praise required, he just fixes the issue behind the scenes.
He takes it all in stride with grace.
He finds not just a temporary band aid but a permanent fix.
He really is interested in helping make the world a better place.
T.J. looks at the whole and considers all possibilities before making recommendations.
And, he never forgets anything.

At the LEC:

T.J. has responded to every emergency.
He has helped fix leaks, repaired our roof, cut down trees, pulled down trees, trimmed trees, helped with landscaping, helped deal with a leaking water heater, filmed a commercial, filmed interviews with members, appeared on with me on Culture Vultures, helped secure funding from individuals, the county, and his own charity for the LEC.
He’s given sound and wise advice at board meetings.
He has matched funds at the Hamburger Mary’s Fundraiser.
He has introduced people to the LEC.
He has lobbied for funding at the county level and at the level of his family foundation.
He got our sculpture donated, filmed the event, worked with Andrew on the special effects, and interviewed students on four different days and then edited the video about it.
As the board Treasurer he created monthly financial reports.
As the board president he ran meetings efficiently, fairly and effectively.
He has donated consistently out of his own pocket.
Does not demand attention or accolades but deserves it.
And, he never forgets anything.

As a friend:

T.J. is loyal, constant and will give excellent advice when asked.
He cleans up the Hillsborough river pulling trash out of the water, understanding the impact on the environment.
He shows up at birthdays, art openings, events.
Rarely asks for help or participation, but when he does, his friends are there.
He has a great sense of humor.
Is a great friend.
He knows how to work every power tool, and machine.
And, he never forgets anything.