Murphy Tribute
As a Leader:
- He is not interested in pushing an agenda, or his own interests, and will not give advice unless asked- except when it’s necessary.
- He is extremely intelligent, and knowledgeable in a wide variety of topics,
- He is curious about everything.
- He is observant.
- He seeks potential, and inspires talent to reach Its fullest potential.
- He is genuinely interested in helping people.
- It is funny you can see him early in the day full of dust, mud or muck depending on what crazy project he is working on… and then in a suit and bow tie- or formal tux…and be just as comfortable and enjoy them equally.
- Equally dedicated and demanding of himself to do his best no matter what the project, endeavor, or status of his position in everything he is involved in.
- He never forgets anything.
When things go wrong:
- T.J. is there- he shows up.
- He quickly surveys the problem, and finds a solution.
- No cape, or praise required, he just fixes the issue behind the scenes.
- He takes it all in stride with grace.
- He finds not just a temporary band aid but a permanent fix.
- He really is interested in helping make the world a better place.
- T.J. looks at the whole and considers all possibilities before making recommendations.
- And, he never forgets anything.
At the LEC:
- T.J. has responded to every emergency.
- He has helped fix leaks, repaired our roof, cut down trees, pulled down trees, trimmed trees, helped with landscaping, helped deal with a leaking water heater, filmed a commercial, filmed interviews with members, appeared on with me on Culture Vultures, helped secure funding from individuals, the county, and his own charity for the LEC.
- He’s given sound and wise advice at board meetings.
- He has matched funds at the Hamburger Mary’s Fundraiser.
- He has introduced people to the LEC.
- He has lobbied for funding at the county level and at the level of his family foundation.
- He got our sculpture donated, filmed the event, worked with Andrew on the special effects, and interviewed students on four different days and then edited the video about it.
- As the board Treasurer he created monthly financial reports.
- As the board president he ran meetings efficiently, fairly and effectively.
- He has donated consistently out of his own pocket.
- Does not demand attention or accolades but deserves it.
- And, he never forgets anything.
As a friend:
- T.J. is loyal, constant and will give excellent advice when asked.
- He cleans up the Hillsborough river pulling trash out of the water, understanding the impact on the environment.
- He shows up at birthdays, art openings, events.
- Rarely asks for help or participation, but when he does, his friends are there.
- He has a great sense of humor.
- Is a great friend.
- He knows how to work every power tool, and machine.
- And, he never forgets anything.
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